Law of Attraction – 8 Tips to Prove it WORKS
The Law of Attraction, like the Law of Gravity, is always working – even if you don’t think about it or believe in it. Law of Attraction is based on the theorem that we attract more of the things that capture our attention. However, if we sustain that attention for a period of time and add strong emotion, it speeds the process up exponentially.
But here’s the problem: Law of Attraction (shorthand: LoA) works on the things that we want as well as the things that we don’t want. Just like the Law of Gravity doesn’t care if you are dropping a ball or a china cup (both will fall – guaranteed), LoA doesn’t care if you want the thing you are manifesting or not. Therefore, if you are chasing your tail with money worries and lack mentality, you are ensuring that you will be receiving more lack and money worries. If only we could have proof that it works…
Want proof? Just ASK
When I was first learning to work with LoA, I found myself unable to push past my skepticism. I wanted proof that this really worked. My logical brain just couldn’t proceed with the experiment until it had that proof that this wasn’t a bunch of airy-fairy, feel-good crap. I put a demand out to the Universe: show me some logical reason why this should work that I can believe.
And then, one day, I got proof. I had been meditating in my backyard when I entered into a very strange conversation with a part of myself that seemed to understand how this all worked. (Yeah, a little crazy, I know. But I tried not to judge it and went along with it. I hoped my neighbors wouldn’t notice me talking to myself.) She said to me, “I can prove to you that not only does this work, you are already a master at using it.”
Whoever it was that was talking, they had my full attention.
The Universe Lays it Out for Me
She said, “Every single job that you have ever held, you have manifested them from what you said that you wanted.” She pointed out to me, in painstaking detail how this had been absolutely true. Each new job, I refined my request as my skills grew. But when we got to the job-from-hell that had given me a nervous breakdown with a boss that was sexually harassing me, I put the brakes on the conversation. “No way,” I said. “I did not manifest that horrible experience, that terrible boss, being so sick that I couldn’t get out of bed.”
She actually laughed. “Yes, you did. You wanted a full-time job. You got it. Then, you wanted a better music making experience. You got it. The problem was that you failed to be specific about a bunch of other really important parameters. Like a good work environment. Like a place to manifest good health. Nope. You were content with putting out into the Universe just a few basic facets of your job. However, you failed to ask for the things that you really wanted because of some poor self-esteem thing in your head. Or some screwed up belief that you had to suffer to move ahead or deserve a better job. Consequently, the rest you manifested by thinking about what you didn’t want from past experiences.”
I was dumbfounded. But she didn’t stop there.
More Proof
“You’ve spent the past 36 years as a church musician, most of it as a conductor. You’ve made it your job to convince amateur musicians that they were capable of performing the music you put in front of them. Hence, you held the image of the desired outcome so strongly for them, that they came along with you. Nice job! Good manifesting!”
Huh. Well, look at that. Finally, I decided that I did have proof. It just wasn’t in the arena that I wanted to create the most change – financial abundance. “Okay,” I countered, “so how do I manifest physical things that I want?”
She laughed again. “You’re sitting in one.”
Undeniable Proof
I was sitting in my hot tub. I had wanted one for at least 20 years. The year before, I had actually done some looking online and found a used one. My lovely wife told me that she wanted to get it for me for my birthday. It was one of the best birthday presents I have ever received and it continues to provide me pleasure and relaxation. I had dreamed of it for so long that I literally dreamed it into my life. I laughed, too. “Okay, Universe. I’m sold. Let’s move on to making this financial abundance thing happen.”
From that point on, I was able to manifest a new business that fully aligned with my artistic and healing principles. The resources and people I needed literally lined up before me. All I had to do was ask and the Universe readily provided what I needed in abundance. Consequently, I am certain that I couldn’t have done this piece of manifesting work without the proof that had been provided to me.
8 Tips to get Proof that the Law of Attraction is Already Working in Your Life
Here are eight great ways to move past your place of resistance to making the Law of Attraction work for you:
- Ask for definitive proof, something that is undeniable to you. Firstly, insist that the Universe help you to move past your doubt. Next, be firm in your request, just like you were ordering something in a restaurant. Finally, be polite but make yourself absolutely clear about what you want.
- Ask the Universe to show you patterns in your life where you have already manifested something you wanted as well as times that you have manifested something less than desirable. Also, be prepared to take ownership of the choices you have made in the past – it is vital to build a solid foundation to become a deliberate manifestor.
- Ask for it to come quickly. Set a date by which you expect to receive the proof that you are seeking. Put it on your calendar. Set a countdown app running. Finally, expect it to come.
- Make time every day to listen. Do this in a place that makes you feel positive and relaxed. If you are in the habit of meditating, enter into your meditation with the expectation that this proof is coming soon.
- Expect the unexpected. I ended up having a conversation with the Universe in my hot tub. Your information is likely to come to you from an unexpected source. Consequently, you may be led to a conversation or to read an article that opens your thinking in a new way.
- Start each day with excitement and curiosity – will today be the day?
- End each day with gratitude for the things in your life that have brought you closer to your goals. Before going to sleep, repeat the request to the Universe for your proof. Finally, don’t give up until you get the proof you are seeking!
- In the unlikely event that the Universe doesn’t deliver on the date you set, make sure that you are setting aside time for listening, excitement, curiosity, and gratitude. These emotions fuel the process that WILL deliver what you ask.
I’d love to hear your stories around using this process! It worked for a skeptic like me – it can certainly work for you!
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